As a speech-language pathologist, one of the most powerful recommendations I give to families is also one of the simplest: read with your child every day. It might seem small, especially in our busy lives full of appointments, errands, and screens. But reading together is one of the most impactful things you can do to support your child’s communication, language development, and overall learning.
Here’s why reading together matters so much—especially for developing talkers:
1. Builds Vocabulary Naturally
When we read books with children, they are exposed to words they may not hear in everyday conversation. Storybooks often include rich, descriptive language that goes beyond the basic words we use during daily routines. Words like “gigantic,” “disappear,” or “whisper” add layers to a child’s vocabulary—and the more words they hear, the more words they eventually use.
2. Supports Understanding of Language (Receptive Language)
Reading helps children learn how language works. They begin to understand that stories have a beginning, middle, and end. They learn how cause and effect works, and how characters feel and react. This supports their comprehension skills, which are essential not just for reading, but for following directions and understanding the world around them.
3. Promotes Early Literacy Skills
Before a child can read on their own, they need to understand how books work—how we turn pages from left to right, that print carries meaning, and that stories follow a sequence. Reading together teaches these early literacy skills in a way that’s fun and interactive, setting the stage for future success in school.
4. Encourages Social Interaction
When we read with a child, it’s not just about the book—it’s about the shared experience. We’re sitting close, making eye contact, asking questions, laughing at silly pictures. That back-and-forth interaction is the foundation of communication. Children learn that communication is a two-way street—and that their thoughts and ideas matter.
5. Boosts Expressive Language (Speaking Skills)
Reading stories gives children something to talk about. As you ask them questions like, “What do you think will happen next?” or “How do you think she feels?” you’re encouraging them to use their words, describe what they see, and express their thoughts. This builds their confidence in using language.
6. Creates a Positive Association with Books and Learning
When reading is cozy, fun, and full of connection, children learn to love it. That love for books often translates into a love for learning. And when children feel successful and connected during reading time, they’re more likely to be engaged and motivated learners in other areas of life.
How to Get Started
Reading together doesn’t have to mean sitting quietly for long periods. Try these tips:
- Let your child choose the book—they’ll be more interested.
- Keep it short and fun—just 5–10 minutes is great for toddlers.
- Talk about the pictures, not just the words.
- Ask open-ended questions like “What do you see?” or “What do you think is happening?”
- Read the same book multiple times—repetition helps children learn!
Final Thoughts
Reading together is more than a bedtime ritual—it’s a language lesson, a bonding moment, and a confidence booster all in one. Whether your child is just beginning to babble or already telling stories, regular reading can support their communication growth in powerful ways.
So grab a book, cuddle up, and enjoy the magic of stories—one page at a time.
